Resigning from a job is never an easy decision—especially when you’re a dad with responsibilities, bills, and little mouths to feed. Recently, I made the tough call to leave my previous BPO company where I had already built familiarity, routine, and friendships. I left Cognizant, a place that became my comfort zone, for a new company that offered a higher salary—but with a longer commute and new challenges ahead.
And now… here I am. Adjusting. Learning. Rebalancing.
Starting Over (Again)
Walking into a new workplace feels a lot like being the new kid in school. You don’t know anyone yet, you’re figuring out the rules, and trying to prove yourself all over again. As a dad, that transition hits harder because the weight of why you’re doing it sits on your shoulders every day.
But I remind myself: I didn’t make this move for comfort—I made it for growth.
For a better income, to support my kids, and to give my family a better future. That thought alone keeps me grounded.
Adjusting to the New Routine
The commute is longer. The schedule is different. I find myself relearning how to manage my time so I can still be present at home.
Here’s what I’m doing to make the adjustment easier:
- Prepping the night before. Clothes, meals, and even my mindset.
- Squeezing in moments with my kids, even if it’s just during breakfast or bedtime.
- Taking breaks at work to breathe, check in, and not feel overwhelmed.
- Being patient with myself. Hindi kailangan maging perfect agad. What matters is I keep showing up.
Missing the Familiar—but Embracing the New
Do I miss my old job sometimes? Yes. The routine, the comfort, even the faces I used to see every day.
But I also see this move as a sign of maturity. Of leveling up.
Minsan kasi, we outgrow places—even if we’re still good in them. And while it’s scary, it’s also exciting. A new environment brings new opportunities. New people. New lessons.
The Tatay Mindset
If there’s one thing I’ve learned as a dad, it’s this: Change is scary, but staying stagnant is scarier.
We don’t make these big decisions lightly. But when it’s for the people we love, we make it work.
So to any fellow dads out there who just left a job, started a new one, or are thinking of making a shift—know that you’re not alone.
Keep going. Adjust, learn, and grow.
You’re not just working for your family—you’re showing them what courage looks like.
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